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Congratulations, you’re engaged! But after the initial euphoria, you might start to think, "Okay, now what?" Planning a wedding can feel like a whirlwind, so we’ve put together a simple 8 step roadmap of what to do after you get engaged to help you stay organised, calm, and excited for the big day!
1. Celebrate with Your Loved Ones
The first thing you should do after getting engaged is to celebrate! Share your news with close friends and family, either in person or virtually, and let the excitement sink in. Consider hosting an engagement party to gather your loved ones and start the celebration in style.
2. Set a Budget
Once you’re ready to start planning, setting a wedding budget i
s a must. Determine how much you are willing to spend overall, and allocate funds for each area of the wedding (venue, catering, flowers, photography, etc.). A realistic budget will help guide your decisions, keep you on track, and ensure that you’re not stretching your finances too thin. Download our free budget tracker to stay on top of your wedding expenses!
3. Choose a Wedding Date or Season
Do you have a dream season in mind? Are there any special dates, like anniversaries or significant milestones? Keep in mind that popular wedding seasons (spring, summer, and fall) tend to book up quickly, so if you're planning on getting married during those times, it’s wise to lock in your date early.
4. Start Thinking About the Guest List
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Though it might seem like an afterthought, the guest list is an essential part of your wedding planning process. Whether you’re envisioning a large celebration with everyone you know or an intimate affair with just a few close loved ones, creating your guest list early will help you determine your budget, choose the right-sized venue, and plan catering and other logistics. Sit down with your partner to discuss who you both want to invite, keeping in mind any family dynamics or venue limitations.
5. Choose your Bridal Party
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Now, it’s time to choose your bridal party. Who do you want to stand by your side on your big day? Consider the friends and family who mean the most to you. Will you have bridesmaids, groomsmen, or maybe an unconventional mix of roles? This decision is personal, and there are no rules, so make sure it reflects what feels right for you and your partner.
6. Find Your Dream Venue
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Whether you're dreaming of a grand ballroom, a rustic barn, or a destination wedding, it's important to book your venue early, as popular locations can book up quickly depending on your date. If you're planning on hiring a wedding planner, Kristine can handle every detail to ensure your day is seamless and unforgettable—no matter where your dream wedding takes you. Book a free consultation to get started!
7. Begin Choosing Your Vendors
Start with the essentials, like a photographer, caterer, florist, and entertainment. These professionals will play a big role in bringing your dream wedding to life, so it’s important to find people whose style aligns with yours. Do some research, read reviews, and schedule meetings to ensure they’re the right fit for your day.
8. Start Designing Your Wedding
Once you’ve got the logistics down, it’s time to dive into the fun part: designing your wedding! Think about the mood you want to create for your celebration—will it be elegant, whimsical, boho, or traditional? Choose your wedding colors, themes, and décor elements, and begin to envision the entire experience for you and your guests.
At Kristine Smith Designs, we’re dedicated to making your wedding planning experience as seamless and enjoyable as possible. If you're ready to start planning, reach out to us—we can't wait to work with you!
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