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Planning An LGBTQ+ Wedding? Here’s What Really Matters

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Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, but for same sex couples, it can also come with unique considerations. Beyond the details like flowers and decor, it’s about making sure your celebration reflects your love story in the most authentic way possible. If you’re planning an LGBTQ wedding in 2025, here’s what truly matters when creating a day that celebrates you and your partner.

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1. Highlight Milestones in Your Relationship


Your wedding day is the perfect opportunity to reflect on the milestones you’ve shared together. Think about specific moments that were turning points in your relationship—like the first time you said "I love you," the moment you decided to move in together, or when you navigated a challenging time and came out stronger. You could highlight these moments in your vows, making them deeply personal by sharing what each milestone meant to you both. This approach ensures that your wedding isn't just a celebration of the day, but a tribute to the entire journey you've taken together.


2. Embrace the Possibility of Changing Last Names



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In 2025, more couples are breaking away from traditional expectations, including the assumption that one partner must take the other's last name. For same-sex couples, the question of names can be a deeply personal decision, and there’s no "right" choice. Whether you decide to hyphenate, both take a new last name, or keep your original names, it's important that your decision feels true to you both. Talk openly about your options, and don't feel pressured by convention. Your names are part of your identity, and this is your chance to define that in a way that feels meaningful for both of you.


3. Embrace Diverse Wedding Traditions


One of the most exciting things about an LGBTQ wedding is the freedom to create traditions that are meaningful to you. Whether you blend elements from your cultural backgrounds or invent new rituals altogether, your wedding should reflect what matters to you both. This can also be shown with custom vows, shared memories, or elements that represent milestones in your relationship. You might choose to highlight your first date location with a small detail, or incorporate a custom tradition that’s meaningful to you both.There are endless possibilities to make your ceremony as personal and unique as your relationship. 


Let’s Make Your Dream Wedding a Reality


At Kristine Smith Designs, we’re here to make your wedding everything you’ve imagined. Whether you need full-service planning, a little help with the details, or stunning floral design, we’ve got you covered. Let’s work together to create a day that’s uniquely yours—Book a free consultation today and let’s get started!





4. Choose Vendors Who Truly Understand Your Vision


Selecting the right vendors is essential for bringing your wedding vision to life. It's important to work with professionals who not only have experience with LGBTQ weddings but who also genuinely understand and respect your needs and values. Whether it's a florist who knows how to incorporate personal touches into your arrangements or a photographer who understands the importance of capturing your love story in an authentic way, your vendors should feel like true partners in your journey. Look for planners, designers, and other service providers who are not just skilled, but who are also inclusive and supportive of your vision. 


5. Dress to Reflect Your True Style


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When it comes to what to wear to your wedding, there are no limitations—this is your chance to express yourselves however you feel most authentic. Whether you choose matching suits, unique gowns, or something entirely outside the traditional wedding dress code, your outfits should feel like a true reflection of who you are as a couple. Many couples are opting for non-traditional attire that feels modern, bold, or even playful. Embrace the freedom to wear what makes you feel powerful, confident, and beautiful, knowing that your look is a personal statement, just as much as your vows.


6. Surround Yourself with Supportive Love


Your wedding is a celebration of your love story, and the people you invite should reflect that. Focus on curating a guest list of those who truly celebrate and support your relationship—family, lifelong friends, and chosen family who have been by your side. These are the people who will cheer for you, laugh with you, and make your day even more meaningful. By surrounding yourself with people who genuinely celebrate your love, you’ll create an atmosphere of joy and authenticity that makes your day even more special.


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Kristine Smith Designs is a full-service wedding planning company in San Diego that also offers partial wedding planning and wedding floral design services.

Owner and CEO Kristine is dedicated to helping couples bring their wedding day dreams to life.

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